Ok.. I know that this is a really, really, really (A Third couldn't hurt, right?) sensitive topic, but what exactly would you do if you suspected someone of being trans? Let me explain. Given the fact that some form of psychological evaluation and the like is almost always involved at some point when annoyance at your own body increase to the point where you can empathize with Al Elric, I've been talking with a couple of psychologists... Psychiatrists? Anyway, one of them, <Name Omitted> apparently, has dark arm hair, something that is most commonly a byproduct of testosterone. I realize that transsexuality isn't' the only way that this could happen, but is there any real way to check or ask? (I'm asking for physical signs, not something that would lead to a Ranma-esque misunderstanding, in defense of possible... Misconstruings?) I wouldn't want to screw over someone's stealth attempt, nor would I want to create an extremely awkward situation, or revive memories that someone would consider too painful to talk about. In summation, is there an even slightly-more-reliable-than-normal way to ask?